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An honest look at my messy father-founder life
I’m no superhuman founder. I’m a dad with a lack of sleep, a slow-growing business, and a messy living room.
Nov 6
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Alfred Lua
October 2026
What I am teaching my children in the age of AI
As AI becomes more and more capable, what is there left to teach my children?
Oct 30
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Alfred Lua
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Hanging up my bike
It is okay to miss something but not want to do it.
Oct 23
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Alfred Lua
The child in me shaped the parent I am
All these years, I have been taking notes on how I want to parent without realizing it.
Oct 16
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Alfred Lua
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This ancient practice is keeping me sane through double HFMD
Getting help from Marcus Aurelius, Charlie Munger, Clayton Christensen, and Anna Quindlen
Oct 9
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Alfred Lua
What bedtime taught me about patience
Bedtime is a cocktail of patience, self-regulation, problem-solving, and willingness to try and fail
Oct 2
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Alfred Lua
September 2026
On fixing taps, and fatherhood
What my dad taught me about self-reliance and agency
Sep 25
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Alfred Lua
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Losing my professional identity as a hands-on dad
What do you call yourself when you spend more time caring for your family than working professionally? Or does it even matter?
Sep 18
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Which hands-on dad are you?
5 levels of hands-on dads. From helping once in a while to being the main caregiver.
Sep 11
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Alfred Lua
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Write Club, notetaking challenges, and more
5 short notes for this week
Sep 4
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Alfred Lua
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August 2026
Slow down, life ahead
11 things I do to slow down and pay attention
Aug 28
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The odd shapes of work
From my dad's car workshop to Claude Code and Craig Mod
Aug 21
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Alfred Lua
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